Ghamkiri : Nayan Raj is more than a writer to me

म राजु संगै  रुपैडिया नाका हुँदै  लखनउ   पुगेँ, त्यहाँ बाट हामी संगै देल्ही पुगेउ र बम्बै । राजु जस्तो जिवन्त पात्र दिएको मा म नयन राज पाण्डे प्रति कृतज्ञ छु, बुटवल मा हुर्केको र भैरहवा तिर बाट सुनौली - नौतन्वा कैले कहिँ पुगेको हुदाँ मलाई राजु को यात्रामा आफुलाई कल्पना गर्न सजिको भयो । कत्ति पटक त म नै राजु बने । बोर्न भिटा को ठाउ मा होर्लिक्स , लक्स को ठाउमा इम्पेरिअल लेदर  र लिम्का को ठाउँ मा कोक थ्यो , र राजु को ठाउँमा म । 

मन्नापरेका कुरा हरु 

पद्मिनी र राजु को प्रेम , खै किन ? सायद  अरु कथा हरु त्यो प्रसङ्ग भन्दा बडी मन परेकाले हुन सक्छ । रुमानी प्रेम !! 

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सारै चित्त बुझेको कुरा

घाम्किरी को अनालोजी , हो हामि सब्बै घाम्किरी हौँ जसका पुछार मा कसै न कसैले केहि न केहि ले बधिदिएको छ एउटा डोरी र हामि बन्धन मा बाँचिरहेछौं


मुकुल र स्नेहा को कथा :

दुवै मध्यम वर्गीय परिवार हुन्छन, मलड मा बस्ने यी जोडी हरु एक अर्का लै खुब मंपरौछां तर केटि को घरकाले केटा लाइ मंपरौदैनन र एक दिन केटि ले घरमा कोहि नभएको बेलामा विष सेवन गरि मर्दछे र प्रेम पत्र छोडेर जान्छे , मुकुल उसको प्रेम मा पागल हुन्छ र पछि  उसले पनि आत्महत्या गर्छ त्यो दिन थुप्रै पुतली हरु उड छन् उसका प्रेम पत्र संगै यो कथा लै नयन राज ले अल्ट्रा लाइट संग सिलसिला मिलाएर लेखेको सारै मन पर्यो 

उध्हब  रत्ना  को  कथा

इन्जिनीरिंग पड्दै गरेको उद्धब का पिता एउटा पत्रिका संयोजक हुन्छन , इन्दिरा गान्धी ले इमर्जेन्सी लगाएर सम्पूर्ण पावर आफ्नो हातमा लिएको अर्को दिन (१९७५-१९७७ १९ महिने) पत्रिका को फ्रन्ट पेज पुरै कालो भएर प्रिन्ट हुन्छ , तेस्मा तमाम संचारकर्मी संगै उद्धव का पिता पनि पक्राउ पर्छन, हिरासत मै उनको मृत्यु हुन्छ , उद्धव लै नि हिरासत मा उता मानसिक सररिक यातना संगै नस्बंदी गरिदिन्छन अनि उनकी श्रीमती उनलाई छोडेर जान्छे ...मौनताले बिस्तारै उद्धब लै खान थाल्छ, उद्धब कि ६० वर्षीय आमाले कोलोनी मा खाजा बेचेर रोजी रोटि चलौछिं

राजु  गाइड को कथा

 दाजु राजिब मुम्बई गाको ५ वर्ष पुग्दा सम्म नि खासै खबर आउदैन, घरमा आम बिरामी हुन्छिन, दिदि को घर बाट दहेज नदिए जलाएर मार्ने धम्कि आइरख्च , उसकी प्रेमिका लै नि बिहे नगरे त्यो केटि को बिहे अन्तै गर्दिन लागेका हुन्छन उसका आम बाउ ले , त्यो स्तिथि मा देल्ही मा भेटिएको थियो राजु  गाइड, जसको संदेश राजु ले मुम्बई पुर्याउने आश्वाशन दिएको हुन्छ , फर्किदा सम्म दिदि को घर बार ब चा उ न उसले २० हजार मा किड नि बेचिदिन्छ

कैलाश को कथा

कैलाश राजिब र जगत संग राजु मलाद को खोलि मा बस्य हुन्छ , आफ्नो प्रेमिका लै तेइ हात ले सिन्धुर लगाउने सपना देखेको कैलाश एक दुइ दिन बेपत्ता हुन्छ, पछि निरिह अवस्था मा अस्पतालमा एउटा हात काट्नुपर्ने र अर्को ले जीवन भर काम नगर्ने अवस्थामा भेटिन्छ


कुकुर लाइ कथा सुनाउदै गर्दा

सबै हावा हो थाहा थ्यो तेइ पनि मजा आइरा थ्यो , लेखक कति सम्म काल्पनिक हुन सक्छन सच्चि नयन राज बाट नै थाहा हुन्छ, त्यो बेला म एउटा बच्चा महसूस गरिरको थिए जसले चुपचाप कथा सुनिरहेको थ्यो , कथा एउटा भोको फुच्चे ले कुकुर संग दुखेसो गरेको !!!

New things that I got to know

Agnatho Frida ---swedish hit group of singer, ended in 1999
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F1jc2Cbz7wg

Richard Matthew stallman  founder of the free software movement and GNU software application which was used in linux os of the version GNU+linux

perfumed garden , 15th century
a book that teaches about sex positions and stories like kamasutra
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Perfumed_Garden



Jaya Dev Krit-- Rati Manjari

https://archive.org/details/ratimanjari_jayadeva

It has clear instructions for sex


Queen Atossa

The name Atossa (or Atusa) means "skilled or learned". It can also mean "well trickling" or "well granting.
Atossa was born in 550 BC in Pasargadae. She was the eldest daughter of Cyrus the Great and Cassandane. Atossa married her brother Cambyses II, probably after the death of her father. When Darius I defeated the followers of a man claiming to be Bardiya (Smerdis), the younger brother of Cambyses II in 522 BC, he married Atossa.^[4] Atossa played an important role in the Achaemenid royal family, as she bore Darius the Great the next Achaemenid king, Xerxes I. 
[wikipedia]



Malkauns is a raga in Indian classical music. It is one of the oldest ragas of Indian classical music

malakunsh rag

The name Malkaush is derived from the combination of Mal and Kaushik, which means he who wears serpents like garlands — the god Shiva. The raga is believed to have been created by goddess Parvati (the wife of Shiva) to calm Shiva when the lord Shiva was outraged and was not calming down after Tandav in the rage of Sati's sacrifice.' Chalo Tumko Lekar Chale' (film Jism, performed by Shreya Ghoshal), are a few Hindi film compositions based on Malkauns

[wikipedia]

king Bharthari
He was the ruler of Ujjain, later he abdicated the throne for his younger brother Vikramaditya. The same Vikramaditya we know from the cartoon, Vikram Aur Baital.

There lived a Brahman who after years of austerities was given the fruit of immortality from the celestial tree of Kalpavriksha. The Brahman presented the same to his monarch, Raja Bhartrhari, who in turn, passed it on to his love, the beautiful, Pinglah Rani or Ananga Sena (as per Maha Kavi Kalidas), Raja Bhartrhari's last and youngest wife. The queen, being in love with the Head police officer of the state, Mahipaala, presented the fruit to him, who further passed it on to his beloved, Lakha, one of the maids of honor. Eventually, Lakha being in love with the king presented the fruit back to the king. Having completed the circle, the fruit revealed the downsides of infidelity to the king, he summoned the queen and ordered her beheading, and ate the fruit himself. After that, he abdicated the throne, to his younger brother Vikramaditya, and became a religious mendicant.

[wikipedia]

pride and prejudice -- we are all fool in love
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1dYv5u6v55Y

Battle of Bull Run, Suliman's love letter

First Battle of Bull Run, also called First Battle of Manassas or Manassas Junction, (July 21, 1861), in the American Civil War, the first of two engagements fought at a small stream named Bull Run, near Manassas in northern Virginia. (Civil War battles often had one name in the North, which was usually associated with a prominent nearby physical feature, and another in the South, which was usually derived from the town or city closest to the battlefield.) The strategic significance of the location lay in the fact that Manassas was an important railroad junction.
source [https://www.britannica.com/event/First-Battle-of-Bull-Run-1861]

July the 14th, 1861
Washington D.C.

My very dear Sarah:
The indications are very strong that we shall move in a few days—perhaps tomorrow. Lest I should not be able to write you again, I feel impelled to write lines that may fall under your eye when I shall be no more.

Our movement may be one of a few days duration and full of pleasure—and it may be one of severe conflict and death to me. Not my will, but thine O God, be done. If it is necessary that I should fall on the battlefield for my country, I am ready. I have no misgivings about, or lack of confidence in, the cause in which I am engaged, and my courage does not halt or falter. I know how strongly American Civilization now leans upon the triumph of the Government, and how great a debt we owe to those who went before us through the blood and suffering of the Revolution. And I am willing—perfectly willing—to lay down all my joys in this life, to help maintain this Government, and to pay that debt.

But, my dear wife, when I know that with my own joys I lay down nearly all of yours, and replace them in this life with cares and sorrows—when, after having eaten for long years the bitter fruit of orphanage myself, I must offer it as their only sustenance to my dear little children—is it weak or dishonorable, while the banner of my purpose floats calmly and proudly in the breeze, that my unbounded love for you, my darling wife and children, should struggle in fierce, though useless, contest with my love of country.

Sarah, my love for you is deathless, it seems to bind me to you with mighty cables that nothing but Omnipotence could break; and yet my love of Country comes over me like a strong wind and bears me irresistibly on with all these chains to the battlefield.
...................
Sullivan

[wikipedia] 

Saha Jahan had incestuous relations with Jahanara

Mumtaz Mahal gave Shah Jahan 13 lucky children and died giving birth to 14th baby in Burhanpur, a thousand kilometer away from Agra. Meanwhile Shah Jahan married 6-7 more women after her death and built a harem (brothel) of 5000-plus sex-slaves. He continued his marriage spree and harem-enhancements even after her death. So much for the epic love story.

[source: http://agniveer.com/shah-jahan-bastard-slept-daughter/]

Also, marriage with non-Muslims is illegal. Until a woman converts to Islam, she has a status of sex-slave. And you can keep unlimited sex-slaves as per Quran.In summary, in all cases, you can keep unlimited wives or sex-slaves. If she has not yet converted to Islam, there are no restrictions at all.
If she converts, you can still enjoy unlimited wives and break relationship any time so far you both do not live in the same home of husband. Because in this case it is a temporary marriage of Misyar where limitation of 4 wives does not apply.
So these Mughals (in fact all Muslim Sultans) would force Hindus to marry their daughters. They will offer to give her a separate special palace and other amenities. The trick was to ensure that she has a separate place so that no one calls them un-Islamic. And foolish Hindu traitors would think that the daughters will get special favors in return for selling their chastity to these perverts.

[source http://agniveer.com/jodha-akbar-rape-daughter-name-religion-dirtiest-picture/ ]

few words about the DNA

Today, autosomal tests are the most common. They can be administered to both men and women, and trace back through the lineage of both sexes.

The Y-DNA test can only be administered to men, and traces DNA back through the patrilineal ancestry (basically from father to grandfather to great grandfather).

The mtDNA is matrilineal and lets you trace your ancestry back through your mother, her mother, and her mother going back.

Autosomal tests can get you quality genetic information going back about four or five generations. Because the Y-DNA and mtDNA tests are more focused on one side of the line, you can get information going back farther, but with less data about family structure.

Which test you take depends entirely on what you're looking for. Don't expect perfect accuracy. They can give you indications, but taking a DNA test won't magically produce a history book of your family's background.

Sankhar Lamichhane
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ebAGvXFj398]

Chinuwa Achebe [Nigerian novelist, poet, professor, and critic] read--things fall apart 

दुखले  तिम्रो  ढोका  ढक्ढकाउदा  बस्ने  ठाउँ  छैन  भनेर  फिर्ता  पठाऊन   खोजेउ  भने  उसले  भन्नेछ  चिन्ता  नगर  मनुवा  मैले  आफ्नै  कुर्शी  पनि  संगै  बोकेर  आएको  छु 

Antalia --

Antilia is one of the most expensive residential properties in the world (2 arab dollars). The 4,00,000 sq. ft. the building is located on Altamount Road in South Mumbai t is a 27-story building but since some ceilings are double-height, it's closer to the size of a 40-story building as it is 570 feet high. The mansion has 3 helipads on the roof.

Sir Creek is a 96 km (60 mi) tidal estuary on the border of India and Pakistan. The creek, which opens up into the Arabian Sea, divides the Gujarat state of India from the Sindh province of Pakistan. 

This region belonging to India is a part of the Indus River Delta most of which lies in Sindh, Pakistan. The creek itself is located in uninhabited marshlands of the Indus Delta just to the West of the Great Rann of Kutch.  During the winter season, the area is home to flamingoes and other migratory birds.

[wikipedia]

Dhrupad gauunu

Chitraa nakshatra ma janmeka le rudrakshya ma wishes Ruchi hunu

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Radha

Radha is a fictional novel written by Krishna Dharabasi, portraying the mythical characters of Dwapara Yuga, Radha, and Krishna.
Krishna is worshipped as one of the 10 avatars of Lord Bishnu, but here in the novel, the writer has tried to portray them as humans with higher abilities.

the story starts with, manuscripts left out by Radha while she was at the end of her journey. After Krishna kills Kansha he doesn't return back to bajra. Due to her own ego, Radha herself couldn't visit Krishna in Mathura. Krishna had a handful of jobs as a king. Sushila, one of the closest friends of Radha and Krishna loses her life while fighting for Krishna.

Krishna killed Narkasura, who had 16,100 wives in his prison. Soon after emancipating them, he marries all of them at once. By then he already had married, Rukmini and 7 other wives. so altogether he had 16,108 wives. A man cannot please so many wives, even staying one night with one wife would cause her to wait for 44 years for the next visit, horrible isn't.

आफुले आफुलाई म को थिए होला भन्ने प्रश्न गर्न नपाउदै मर्दो रहेछ मान्छे

As a child when Krishna called all his friends who were girls in the Bhandir forest, he tells Radha that, we should rise from physical and material love to the form of spiritual love. So the question is if he wasn't interested in having sex why did he marry so many women? He explains to Radha that he found different features of her in different wives.

I found the book awfully long, though the plot and some of the stories are way awesome. Dharabasi mostly tries to impart women empowerment in his novels. As for examples are, Jhola and Tundal.

Radha doesn't like the idea of Krishna marrying so many women and Pandava sharing single Draupadi. Karmanasha ( daughter of Yasoda and Nanda ray who was exchanged with Krishna ) remorses her marriage with rishi Durbasa. All the women in the novel are unhappy and they argue that they should have the freedom of choosing their groom.

Out of all the miseries, Radha sets her journey to leave behind all the worldly pleasures and find the meaning of life, she leaves her old sick mother Kalawati. Actually kalawati herself lets her go. She finds out that the women were treated as lower humans and weren't allowed to make decisions.

Meanwhile, Krishna had built Dwarika, a great city where for Radha he built a huge palace called a Radha Bhawan.

Throughout the novel, there are no traces of godly powers. And Radha is against worshipping idols.
The story ends with the war of Kurukshetra and the narrator actually turns out to be Aswatthama.

The novel contradicts with actual myth Mahabharata. Readers will for sure take a moment and question themselves if we were told the truth. Dharawasi argues that the stories we have been told are just biased, one side of stories, not the whole story indeed.

Radha, in her journey, visits Muktinath, and Biratnagar and that's when she wrote the manuscripts.

Id rate this novel 7/10. I know it deserves more but few things are repetitive and I am a huge fan of minimalism.

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How to win Friends and Influence People - Dale Carnegie

I found the book as one of the best self-help and motivational books I have ever read. Carnegie guides you to deal with people, be it in business, in school, at home anywhere with anyone. We don't have to win all the arguments and when people get angry, most of the times its because they need attention, so just by not getting angry and giving the person what he is seeking could do a lot better.

A man convinced against his will Is of the same opinion still

Men must be taught as if you taught them not And things unknown proposed as things forgot

If we want to make friends let's put ourselves out to do things for other people-things that require time energy selflessness and thoughtfulness :)

I judge people by their own principles not by my own ------Martin Luther king

By fighting you never get enoughBut by yielding you get more than you expected

a drop of honey catches more flies than a gallon of gall

he who treads softly goes far ----chinese proverb

in every work of a genius we recognise our own rejected thoughts they come back to use with a certain alienated majesty --Ralph Waldo Emerson

Dale Carnegie has given hundreds of motivational and practical examples in the book that can help us to change our fundamental habits. Of course its harder to apply than just reading the book but with these techniques certainly you can excel :) happy reading its a must read book id rate it

10/10

Principles in Nutshell

Fundamental techniques of handling people

Principle 1

Don't criticise, condemn or complain.

Principle 2

Give honest and sincere appreciation.

Principle 3

Arouse in the other person an eager want.

Six ways to make people like you

Principle 1

Become genuinely interested in other people.

Principle 2

Smile

Principle 3

Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and the most important sound in any language.

Principle 4

Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.

Principle 5

Talk in terms of the other persons interests

Principle 6

Make the other person feel important-and do it sincerely

Win people to your way of thinking

Principle 1

The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.

Principle 2

Show respect for the other person's opinions.

Never say "You're wrong

Principle 3

If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically

Principle 4

Begin in a friendly way

Principle 5

Get the other person saying "yes, yes immediately

Principle 6

Let the other person a great deal of the talking

Principle 7

Let the other person feel that the idea in his or her

Principle 8

Try honestly to see things from the other person's point of view

Principle 9

By sympathetic with the other person's ideas and desires

Principle 10

Appeal to the nobler motives.

Principle 11

Dramatize your ideas.

Principle 12

Throw down a challenge

Be a leaderA leader's job often includes changing your people'sattitudes and behaviour.

Principle 1

Begin with praise and honest appreciation.

Principle 2

Call attention to people's mistakes indirectly

Principle 3

Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person

Principle 4

Ask questions instead of giving direct orders

Principle 5

Let the other person save face.

Principle 6

Praise the slightest improvement and praise every

improvement. Be "hearty in your approbation and have lavish in your praise

Principle 7

Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to.

Principle 8

Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct

Principle 9

Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest 

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अन्तर्मनको यात्रा

मर्ने मान्छे ले कहिल्ल्यै झुटो बोल्दैन , जीवन को उत्तरार्ध मा मृत्यु लाइ नजिकै बाट देख्दा देख्दै लेखिएको यो उपन्यास शैली को आत्मालाप बाट धेरै कुरा सिके मैले , घिमिरे लै पैले नचिनेको र आत्मालाप मा बतैयेका थुप्रै पात्र लाइ नचिनेको हुदा मलाई कता कता झिजो लागिरको थ्यो तर १२ खण्ड तिर जब किमो गर्दा को अनुभव हरु सुनौना थाले मेरो शरीर मा काँडा उम्रन थाले ...

.पुस्तक बाट एकदमै मनपरेका लाइन हरु एस प्रकार छन् 

रोबोट फ्रोस्त को कविता

जंगलको गोरेटो मा बाटो छुट्टियो र मैले बेचलती को बाटो रोजेंसबै फरक तेसैले गरेको हो 

मुगल राजा औरंग्जेब जसले संगीत का सबै वाध्य वाधन जमिन मुनि गाडेका थिए .....तेइ पनि संगीत मरेन

अवसरले कसैलाई खोज्दैन, अवसरलाई आफैले खोज्नुपर्छ 

अमंत्रमक्षरं नास्ति नास्ति मूलमनौषधम्‌ ।अयोग्यः पुरुषो नास्ति योजकस्तत्र दुर्लभः॥ 

पतंजली ले योग लै सुत्रबद्ध गरे यम नियम आसन प्राणायाम प्रत्याहार धारणा ध्यान र समाधि 
यम का पांच उप अंग एस प्रकार छन् अहिम्षा सत्य अस्तेय ब्रम्हाचार्य अपरिग्रह (असंग्रह) 
तेइ एउटा यम को अभ्यास गर्ने मान्छे त महात्मा गान्धी हुन्छ भने अस्टाङ्ग योग को अभ्यास गर्ने मान्छे कस्तो होला ?

सबैकाे जन्मदै दुई तफी टिकट बनेर अाकाे हुन्छ फकने मिती मात्रै गाेप्य 

मान्छे जति मृख भयाे अाफृलाई त्यति बुद्धिमानी ठान्छअज्ञानीलाई अाफ्नाे ज्ञान थाहा हुन्छ ज्ञानीलाई अाफ्नाे अज्ञान

कश्यप गोत्र को महिमा :D

पृथ्वीनारायण शाहले भारदवा्ज गाेत्र त्यागी कश्यप गाेत्र लिएका थिए--सन्दिपानी व्यासले कृष्णलाई 64 दिनमा ६४ कलामा पारगंत गराएका

प्रत्येक रात निदाउदाँ म मर्छु र प्रत्येक बिहान ब्युझदाँ म जन्मन्छु 

                                                                                            -महात्मा गान्धी

Check your mind with your own mind, Osho's philosophy, and also 

ना भोगो ना भागो सिर्फ जागो

पुत  सपुत  तो  धन  क्यून  सांचे
पुत कपुत्  तो  धन  क्यून   सांचे

जो  मानिस  सबैको  मित्र  हो  उ  कसैको  पनि  मित्र  होइन  

my rating for the book 7/10 

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सेतो धर्ति

२०६८ सालको मदन पुरस्कार विजेता उपन्यास सेतो धर्ति साहित्यकार अमर न्यौपाने को कृति हो । तत्कालिन समाज मा ९ वर्ष मा विधवा भएकी ताराकुमारि ले गर्नुपरेका संघर्ष हरुलाई कलात्मक शैलीमा उपन्यासमा उतारिएको छ ।

तेती बेला माहुर बगाएर मात्रै खोला तर्ने परम्परा रहेछ ।  छोरी पढे भने बोक्सी हुन्छन भन्ने सोंच ले समाज व्याप्त थियो । घरको अत्यास लगेर फर्किएकि तारा लै तेही बाटो एकदम छोटो लाग्छ , येसरी   फर्कदा उही बाटो कैले लामो कैले छोटो  लग्नु ले हामि खुसि छौ या दुखि भन्ने कुरा प्रस्ट हुन्छ । 

श्रीमान मर्दा भन्दा आफ्नो श्रीन्गार खोसिदा को विद्रोह बाट बाल मनोविज्ञान लाइ अध्भुत रुपमा दर्शा इएको छ ।जस्तो खायो तेस्तै भ इन छ भन्दा विपरित धारणा ।।।।कुकुर को दुध खाएर पनि मान्छे जस्तो हुने अपवाध को आधार लिइएको छ ।

I'd rate it 9/10 , its a must-read book 

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खुसी

मान्छे आफ्नो आँखाले होइन मनले संसार देख्छ , कठै बरा आँखा त लाचार क्यामेरा झैँ रहेछ मन भने क्यामेरा पर्सन ले जता  फर्कायो जे देखायो जति देखायो तेती मात्र हेर्न सक्ने 

सबै बरलिनेहरु उदेश्य विहिन हुदैनन् विशेस गरि ती जो चलन्च्लाती को भन्दा वेग्लौ सत्यको खोजि मा हुन्छन 

हामीले एस्तो समाज को निर्माण गरेका छौ जहाँ इमान दारी र मुर्खता को एउटै परिभाषा लाग्दछ 

सौ चुहे खाके बिल्ली हज को चलि 

http://www.aanepal.org --- alcoholic anonymous nepal

आम नेपाली पत्रकार झैँ म पढ्थे थोरै लेख्थे धेरै, म जान्दथे थोरै बोल्थे धेरै 

जीवन मा कति पढियो  भन्दा पनि कति सहि पढियो अर्थपूर्ण हुन्छ  । 

मान्छे लाइ आफ्नो प्रशंशा मा छिटो र निन्दा मा अबेर बिश्वास लाग्छ 

प्रतिवावान त्यो हो जसको लक्षय सम्म अरु कोहि पुग्न सक्दैनन् ।  जिनियस त्यो हो जसको लक्श्य अरुले देख्न पनि सक्दैनन् 

भावना थामी २०६९ मुखभरी रौँ भएकी फुच्ची जसको तस्बिर कान्तिपुर दैनिक को फ्रोंत पेज भरि एको  थ्यो

ओशो ---- जिस चिज से मुक्त होना हे उस चिज को जान्लेना जरूरी होता हे 

गलत प्रश्न ले सहि उत्तर पाउदैन

स्वान्तसुखाय  :

धुलो त आफ्नो मुख मा जमेको थ्यो , ऐना पुछ्दै जीवन बिताए 

राम्रा कुरा सिक्नु नराम्रा कुरा बाट  टाढै  बस्नु
 

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योग माया

२०७५ सालको मदन पुरस्कार विजेता एस पुस्तक मा साहित्यकार निलम कार्की निहारिका ले प्रथम नेपाली महिला नेत्री तथा धार्मिक अभियन्ता योगमाया न्यौपाने को संघर्ष लाइ दर्शैयेकी छन्
१९७९ मा श्री ३ ले सति प्रथ उन्मुलन ग
र्दा अरुण नदि नजिकै को गाउँमा भक्तिनी मायाको पात्र बाट आफु सक्दो भएको प्रयाश र हर्ष उल्लाश लाइ उपन्यास मा चित्रण गरिएको छ । साथै उनले बाल विवाह अन्त्य गर्न र विधवा विवाह गर्ने नियम ल्याउन गरेको तत्परता लै पनि देखिएको छ ।

सारै दुखको कुरा एस देशको इतिहास मा येस्तै महत्व पूर्ण कुराहरु पोखरा ले सेती लुकाए झैँ लुकाइएको छ 

हामी  आइमाई मान्छे आफ्ना डोली भित्रिएको घर बाट बिदा नपाई निस्किने भनेको कात्रोमा बोकिदा मात्र हो नत्र जे पर्दा पनि सहेरै बस्नुपर्छ

हाम्रो समाज ले छोरीलाई सधै अर्घेलो नै देख्छ 

• पृथ्वी नारायण शाह ले आमालाई सति जान रोके तर उनि मर्दा रानिहरुलाई रोक्ने कोहि भएन, हुन त तिनी खुसि ले नै गए होलान |
• सति प्रथा रोक्न भनि बाबा गुरु षडानन्द ले दिन्ग्ला मा मलामी हरु संग धरी लड्थे |
• कमारी ले जन्माएको सन्तान समेत मालिक को हुने भएकाले कमारी को दाम कमारो को भन्दा ज्यादा हुन्थ्यो |
• पछि ब्राह्मण लै चै दास बनौन नपाउने भयो रे|

Its a bulky book with like 500 pages, to the later pages I found the book less interesting so I left at 400 pages or something, It's good if you're interested in Nepali history or if your major is in the subject relatable to it....but 500 pages is huge...id rate it 6/10, yeah I am conscious that its a madan purakskar winner

 

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रक्त कुण्ड

रक्त कुण्ड पढेर थाहा  भएका कुर हरु   

1) ठमेल मा पहिले ठुलो झाडी थ्यो रे
2) खुसियाली जनौना २१ वा ३१ तोप को सलामी दीइन्थ्यो
3) पहिले नेपाल सरकार थियो -२००७ मा श्री ५ को सरकार भयो र अहिले पुन नेपाल सरकार भएको छ
4) जुङ्ग बहादुर राना का छोरा
5) जगत जुङ्ग -----> भैरे भनेर बोलाइन्थ्यो
6) वीर समशेरलाइ  ----> कैले bhanera (कपाल कैलो हुनाले )
7) जंग बहादुर ले जिस्कौदै भन्थे भैरे को टाउको कैले ले खान्छ  र हुन पनि तेस्तै भयो
8) इन्द्र राज्य लक्ष्मी को मृत्यु प्रेगनेन्सी कम्प्भलिकेटेड भएर भनिन्छ तर खासमा उनले राडा विरोधी अभियान को 9) कुरा फुस्कौने आसंका ले दरबार भित्रै बाट चलखेल भएर स्लो पोइजन दिइएको हुन सक्छ
10) राजा महेन्द्र ले इन्द्र कि बहिनि रत्न लै विवाह नगरेको भए दर्बार तिन टुक्रा हुन सक्थ्यो
11) रत्न राज्य लक्ष्मी परिवार नियोजन गर्ने नेपाल कि प्रथम महिला हुन्
12) महेन्द्रले रत्न लाइ नागार्जुन दरबार मा भित्र्याएका थिए
13) दरबार मा पार्टी हुदा चुरोट नखाने ले नि कम से कम चुरोट समात्नै पर्थ्यो


यौन का मामिला मा राजा त्रिभुवन कम्जोर थिए , राजकाज छाडी रति राग मा भुलोस भनि श्री ३ चन्द्र शमशेर ले राम्री राम्री केटि हरु दरबार पठाउथे , उनका चार भित्रिया महारानी भएको आसंका पनि गरिन्छ र रक्सि धेरै खाएर मुटु रोग बाट उनको देहान्त भएको थियो, उनको कस्केट हनुमानढोका स्थित दरबार मा सुरक्षित छ

महेन्द्र ले होलि मा नाटक गर्ने बिछटै राम्री कतिको यौन शोषण गरेको प्रसङ्ग मा बि. पी ले भनेका थिए ,"महिलाका लागि रुप अभिसाप"

रत्न पोखरा मन्दिर मा जादा, बिपी संग महेन्द्र ले आफु एक्लोपन मा हुर्किएका ले खराब बानि हरु भएको गुनासो गरेका थिए

आइतबारे रानी भनेर पृथ्वी वीर बिक्रम (त्रिभुवन का पिता ) कि भित्रिया रानी लै चिनिन्थ्यो जो संग उनि सधै आइतबार आइतबार दर्शन गर्न निस्किन्थे


पुरुष लै जति नै यौन स्वतन्त्रता  थियो महिला लाइ उति  नै कठोर,  दरबार भित्रनै लिङ्ग  विभेद  थ्यो

रत्न सरकार  ले सन्तान  रख्नुभायेना  , इन्द्र  सरकार का सन्तान  लाइ  मात्री     प्रेम प्रधान गरिबक्स्यो, ज्ञानेन्द्र सरकार लाई  सबैभन्दा बढि  माया गरिबक्संथ्यो

ज्ञानेन्द्र सरकारले विरेन्द्र सरकार लै केटा केटि अवस्था देखि नै हेपी बक्संथ्यो 

रबिन्द्र  शाह र उनकी आम लाइ रत्न दरबार आएको एक महिना मै  रविभवन मा बस्ने प्रबन्ध मिलाइयो , रत्न ले रबिन्द्र लाइ  रुचौदैन थीइन   यस  माने  मा इन्द्र  रत्न भन्दा  पनि उदार  थिइन 

नारायण हिटी  चौतारिया फत्तेजंग को दरबार हो , कोतपर्व मा उनि मारिए पछि रडो दिप ले आफ्नो बनायो र वीर समशेर को पालोमा हनुमान ढोका साघुरो भएर दरबार नारायणहिटी मा सारियो

महेन्द्र सरकार धनका लागि मरिहत्ते गर्थे उनले ३१ करोड रुपैया मा हनुमान ढोका बेचेर राज्यकोष बाट पैसा लिएका थिए

महेन्द्र र बिपी दुवै पढेलेखेका राजनीतिज्ञ तथा साहित्यकार भएकाले दुवै एकदम नै मिल्थे

तर २०१७ सालमा राजाले बिपी लै जेल हालेर राज्यसत्ता हात मा लिए , रत्न ले बिपी लै मनपराए पनि उनका भै गिरिजा लाइ भने मन परौदैनाथीइन  उनलाई पिलन्धरे बाहुन भन्ने गर्थिन

बिरेन्द्र सरकारको मन पर्ने रक्सि  भ्याट ६९ थियो

रत्न ले विरेन्द्र , ज्ञानेन्द्र लाइ चन्द्र खलक मा विहे गर्न रोक लगाएकी थि इन , गर्ने भए जुद्ध खलक मै गर भन्ने आदेश थ्यो ( आफु स्वयेम जुद्ध समशेर कि छोरी थि ईन ) । ज्ञानेन्द्र भने खुसि थिएनन्, उनले चन्द्र समशेर कि नातिनी लै प्रेम गर्दथे । अन्त्यमा उनको विवाह रत्न कि ठुलोबाबा अग्नि समशेर कि नातिनी  संग भय०ओ
विरेन्द्र ऐश्वर्य
ज्ञानेन्द्र कोमल
धिरेन्द्र प्रेक्षा

विवाह पूर्व नै फुपू चेला- मामा चेली होइ बक्शंथ्यो

विरेन्द्र ऐस्वार्य ले गरिमा राणा एस एल सी बोर्ड फस्ट २०५१ लाइ बुहारी बना उन चाहन्थे
दिपेन्द्र ले देवयानी राणा , पशुपति समशेर कि छोरी लै मनपराउथे
रत्न राज्य लै चाही दिपेन्द्र ले दुप्रिया शाह संग बिहे गरे हुन्थ्यो भन्ने थियो

५८ मंगसिर का लागि विवाह तय भएको थियो , ज्योतिष ले ३० नपुगी विवाह गर्न उचित नहुने भनेका थिए
२०२८/३/१३ का दिन दिपेन्द्र को जन्म भएको थियो २०५८/३/१३ मा उनि ३० पुग्थे, तर मंगसिर अगि कुनै लगन थिएन तेस साल, जेठ मा जेठो छोराको विवाह गर्न नहुने विश्वास थ्यो

२०६२ साल  श्रावन १० मा महेन्द्र पोलिस  क्लब मा जेल्परेका कनक मणि दीक्षित , पल्पसा क्याफे पढिरहेका थिए, कृष्ण अविरल ले उनीसंगको संवाद मा आफ्नो अल्प ज्ञान महसुस गरे रे अनि विभिन्न खोज द्वारा यो पुस्तक लेख्न जोस जागर ल्याए




   

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Haribahadur

हरि बहादुर नेपाली समाजको त्यो पात्र हो जसले आफ्नो चतुर्याईको दुरुपयोग गर्दै समाज लाई नै दुख दिइरहेको छ ।
उस्को चतुर्याँई देखेर, खित्का छाडेर हास्न मन लाग्छ तर त्यही
बेला पिडित व्यक्ति हरू प्रति समवेदना पनि आउछ ।

उसले गरेका कामहरु ठिक हुदैँ होइनन् तर उसका पनि विवशता हरू छन् । एउटा टुहुरो अवहेलित पात्र हो हरीबहादुर जसले जिउनका लागि सघर्ष गरीरहेको थियो तर उसको बाटो सही थिएन ।

हरबिहादूर स्वार्थि निर्दयी पात्र पनि होेइन । उसले हजूरआमा कमलीलाइ र श्रिमति अलैँचि लाई औधि नै माया गर्छ । हरबिहादुरलार्ए ठ्याक्कै सुहााउने पात्र छ अलैचिँको, उस्तै चतुर र फटाह खालको ।

वयोवृद्दा पशुपति बाजे जसका सबै छोरा बिदेश थिए, बिहे गरी बस्ने रहर पालेका थिए । लाटि रुक्मिणी उनलाइ प्रेम गर्थी तर उनी भने अरु तरुनी ताकेर बसेको थियो । चतुर्याँइृ पुर्वक हरीबहादुरले ति दुइृको बिवाह गरिदिन्छ । पश्पति बाज् सुरुमा त खुशी हुदैँनन् तर पछि भने उनलाई बिहे शुभ नै हुन्छ । तर त्यै शिल्शिला मा पनि हरीबहादुरले थुप्रै सुन लुट्छ ।

द्वन्दका अवयवहरु निकै सुन्दर शैलीमा जोडिएको छ, हरीबहादुरले छोरो गुमाउछ अनि रुकमिणिले सिन्दुर । कहाली लाग्दो दृश्यको चित्रण भएको छ गाउँमा जब आर्मी र माओवादिको भिडन्त हुन्छ ।

हरीबहादुरसगँ अलैचीँको उपचार गर्न पैशा हुँदैन । काठमाडौँ जाँदा उ आफै ठगिन्छ, अनि उसलाई विगतमा गरेका कुकर्महरु एक एक गरी स्मरण हून्छ । अन्तिममा उसले केही शिप नलागेर माग्न बस्छ तर त्यतीले खाना खाने जोहे गर्न पनि मुस्किल ह्ुन्छ । जेलमा सगैँ बसेको शेरबहादुर उर्फ भालु मन्त्री हुन्छ तर उ बाट पनि केही सहयोग आउदैँन । अन्त्यमा अलैँचि मर्छै तर एसगँ लाश जलाउने पैशा समेत हूदैँन, केही शिप नलागी उसले अलैचिँको लाश बागमतिमा बगाइदिन्छ । उसको विवशता नबूझ्नेले उस्लाई पागल, अधर्मी भन्छन । उ आशूँका धारा बगाउछ र पश्चताप गर्दछ । दरबार बाट शुरु भएको कथा आयृघाटमा सकिन्छ

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Binod chaudhary

नजिक बसेर टाढा हुनु भन्दा टाढा बसेर नजिक हुनु राम्रो भगवान को मुख नहेरी ग्राहक को मुख हेर्यो भने लछिन हुदैन  

Theres  a beautiful miraculous story of a real life incident that goes like :

His mother died of cancer in 2057 BS and his father too had cancer on his tongue, first they tried cutting it but later on it grew out of control , fed up with all the medical treatments including ayurveda and tibetean they went to banglore and saw saibaba. The bibhuti of saibaba worked and miraculously it healed the cancer.

He is a quite a singer , ekai najr ma maya basyo hai, luki chhipi heridinale was sung by him, composed and written by sambujheet baskotaa, with whom he started his musical journey with the debut song, maya jindagiko abhinna anga ho.......

He was the producer of movie Basudev (directed by Nir Shah) - kun mandir ma janxau yaatri this song was the part of the movie. The movie was selected as the best film in foreign category in moscow film fest 2040 BS.

हामी त्यस्तो देश का नागरिक हौँ जहाँ ठुलो मान्छे बन्न ठुलो सोच राखनै पर्दैन केवल ठुला मान्छे को संगत गरे पुग्छ

एमाले जडसुत्र वादी कम्युनिष्ट होइन किन भने येस्मा उदारवाद पनि आएको छ र यो कुरा, बिनोद चौधरी र ट्रेड युनियन अटाउनु ले पनि बुझाउछ

श्री ५ धिरेन्द्र ले राजपाट त्यागेर बसेको थिए । त्यतिबेला को एउटा रमाइलो घटना एस्तो छ , लण्डन घुम्दै गर्दा धिरेन्द्र , बिनोद चौधरी र अरु दुइ जना साथी भएर ह्वाइट हेज बार मा पुगेका थिए । तहाँ श्री ५ धिरेन्द्र ले शिर्ली लाइ देखेका थिए र उनीलाई प्रभावित पार्न भनि सवै भन्दा महँगो डोक  पोरेन  नामक स्याम्पेन का १२ बोत्तल खाएका थिए । प्रेक्षा माथि दुर्बेवाहर गरेको थाहा पाएपछि महारानी ऐश्वर्य राज्य लक्ष्मी ले धिरेन्द्र लै नराम्रो संग गालि गरेकी थिइन् । त्यस पछि नै उनले राजकीय ऐश आराम त्यागेका हुन् ।

श्री ५ ज्ञानेन्द्रले सुर्य टोबाको कम्पनी लै माथि ल्याउन साम दाम दण्ड वेद प्रयोग गरेका थिए । कहानी एस्तो छ, पहिले याक चुरोट खुब चल्थ्यो, सुर्य चुरोट लै उकास्न पहिले राजा ले ट्रक का ट्रक याक चुरोट किनेर स्टक मा राखे, पछि त्यो ओशिएर काम नलाग्ने भएपछी बजार मा पठाए । ग्राहक ले ऒसियेको याक भन्दा सुर्य रुचाउनु सोभाविक भयो अनि सुर्य चुरोट ले लगातार सफलता हासिल गर्यो । श्री ५ ज्ञानेन्द्र सिप्रदी ट्रेडिङ्ग, सोल्टी होटेल जस्ता ठुला कम्पनी का मालिक हुनु बाट उनि एक सक्षम उद्योगकर्मी  भएको पुस्टि हुन्छ ।      

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Big Magic : Elizabeth Gilbert

Its a self help non fiction that starts with courage, which is all what takes to get your inner you into this world. Jack Gilbert might be her father or barely an imagination, god knows . I have that conviction cause she and jack had the same surname, and jack has already passed by 2012 .

argue for your limitations and you get to keep them

well nobody wants their limitations to keep with them, so what they can do is let it go, don't dwell upon it move on, get off your comfort zone and hence you will unleash a great feat of transcendence

creativity is a path for the brave, yes , but it is not a path for the fearless, and its important to recognize the distinction. 

your fear will always be triggered by your creativity, because creativity asks you to enter into the realms of uncertain outcome and fear hates uncertain outcomes.

Pinned beneath the boulder

Like fearing to do again once you reached the top., If you cannot win, then you must not continue to play.

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खलंगा मा हमला

खलंगा  मा  हमला , राधा  पौडेल  द्वारा  लिखित  पुस्तक  हो  जसमा  उनले  आफुले  सानैदेखि  इछ्यएको  ठाउँ  जुम्लामा  आफु  सुरक्षित  मातृत्व  को  कार्यक्रम अन्तर्गत खटिदा , तत्कालिन  १०  बर्से  मावोवादी  द्वन्द  का  घटना  हरुलाई  प्रस्तुत  गरेकी  छिन ।

बाबा ले  सानै  देखि ,  आफु  भन्दा   गरिब  जुम्ली  हरु  भएको  बताएपछि  उनीमा  सानै  देखि  जुम्ला   जाने  रहर  को  बिजन्कुरण  हुन्छ  . उनको  इछ्य  २०५८  सालमा  पुरा  हुन्छ ...उनि  जुम्ला  पुग्क्षिन ...जुम्ला  को  एभरेस्ट  होटेल  मा   बस्क्षिन ..तेतिबेला  उनीलाई  जुम्ला  सछिकै  गरिब  भएको   महसूस  हुन्छ  ...   

एस  पुस्तक  मा , जुम्ला  सदरमुकाम  खलंगा  मा  मावोवादी  ले  आक्रमढ  गरेको  घटनाको  द्रिस्यंकन   निकै  नै  रोचक  ढंग मा  गरिएको  छ .यो  पुस्तक  मदन  पुरस्कार  विजेता  पनि  हो  । 

हमला  हुदै  गर्दा , कोठा  भित्र  लुकेकी  उनले , भोलि  बाचिन्छ   या  बचिदैना  भन्ने  पनि  दोधार  मा  थिइन    तब  उनि  सजिलो  संग  मर्न  चाहन्थिन , र  तेतिबेला  उनले  भनेको  एउटा  वाक्य  ले  सारै  मन  छोयो , 

                  

जब  मृत्यु  निश्चित  हुन्छ , तब  मान्छे  ले  तहाँ   पनि  सजिलो  उपाय  खोज्न  थाल्छ 

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Death: The Greatest Fiction

Its a collection of speeches of Rajaneesh Osho about Death, one of the most controversial topic, and that has been taught as end of everything and mournful by our religions. The thing that I liked about Osho is, he asks his followers to be skeptical, to follow only after experimenting and being certain, because

Only certainties will save you, beliefs are the boats made up of paper. 

We are in the continuous cycle of birth and death, our desire drives us to born again and again, changing bodies since eternities just to manifest our desires. Once you stop having desires, you can stop this wheel, and your consciousness will  exits in the universe without having to born again.Birth and Deaths have been there since eternities and

you are always in the middle of two eternities.

Death can only be encountered in the deaths of loved ones. 

Try something else don't die with the questions, die with the answers. 

        People who are afraid of death become afraid of all orgasmic experiences, because in each orgasm the ego dies.

Death has been misunderstood by us, for centuries. Each death reminds you of your own death. In fact death are strong weapons for religions, people fear death and they always have that in their mind,"I have been here for my sins so I will do good karmas in this live so that Ill have a better life" Death and Next life , this has become a perfect excuse for us, its okay I am poor in this life, in next life I shall be rich , the false hopes!!! 

                 If there were no deaths nobody would have bothered about religion at all.

Osho, says considering the time, no one is rich and no one is poor, there is no mater of running fast to get something. If doing something fast meant to be the success, the symphony that played at the fastest speed would sound the best, but that's not the case always, one has to do it beautifully and gracefully. A beautifully scored goal, a beautifully played piece,  a beautifully made art.

Time is available to the poor as much as to the rich.

Celebrating birthdays are not worthy, with every year you come closer to death. Achievements are to be celebrated, birthdays are merely dates.

You are standing in the same queue and the queue is becoming shorter and shorter every day, you are coming closer and closer to death. 

Death is permanent disappearance, its like loving , an abstract thing, you cant know what loving is without falling in love yourself. If you define love as hugging kissing or holding hands, that isnt . Yeah that might be the ways of expressing love but that isn't love. In the same way, We see people die and think that its painful but that is just our belief, we can only be certain when death comes to us.

In death your ego disappears; only your pure being remains   

With these beautiful teaching the book awakens us, You can simply Meditate just by watching, watch carefully every step, be the witness. Once you do that, you have already started meditating. The book contains of number of great stories including Rabindranath Tagore, a thief Mulla, a person from Kashmir who faked his death thrice, yayati, Krishnamurti, story of a businessman and many more.

Osho also believes in euthanasia (the practice of intentionally ending a life to relieve pain and suffering , if one has lived enough)  because there is no meaning of enduring pain when you are going to be born again and when you have seen enough of this world. 

I strongly recommend you to read this book. :) It will change your perception .

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